About milk & honey

Our journey through life is a continuous learning curve. From our first steps to riding a bike to learning to swim we are shown “how to do”, however when it comes to lovemaking we are literally thrown in the deep end. Most people pick up their sexual skills from magazines, porn, peers and awkward romps in the back seat of a car. The whole sexual experience as we know it is based on performance. Ask most people what they consider “good sex” and invariably the answer is both partners achieving orgasm.

This goal-oriented sex not only places a lot of pressure on the lovers, but also can lead to “mechanical” and “mind active” sex, not love making. To make love is to totally lose yourself in the moment, where everything stops and you have no urge to be anywhere else except RIGHT HERE!!!

Unfortunately women remain in a battle between traditional “prim and proper” remnants of sexuality and the sexually aggressive “Sex and the City” generation. We have also become a society obsessed with image, which has lead to serious self-esteem issues. Many people are so concerned about physical flaws that during sex their mind is racing about insecurities, fears and guilt. For many the pressures of everyday life are so overwhelming, with being The Provider or “Superwoman” i.e. Career woman, perfect mother, perfect wife that the last thing on their mind is lovemaking. All this thought distracts from truly being in the moment, allowing that authentic self to immerse in guiltless pleasure.

To throw a few statistics around: 50% of all marriages end in divorce, only 30% of women achieve orgasm during intercourse and if those annoying ads are anything to go by 1 in 3 men have some sort of sexual dysfunction... Hmmm, things aren’t going so well, are they?

On a personal level, I’m constantly listening to men and women’s disappointment, disillusionment and discontentment with their sex lives.

I was raised in a family that embraced sexuality, so sex for me has always been something beautiful, fun, exciting not a relationship bargaining tool or an added bonus. I’ve also studied psychology and counselling, Dip. Community Services (Community Work), but have always found myself drawn toward eastern and western philosophies.

I’m not religious or overtly spiritual, but having practiced yoga for 6 years and dabbled in meditation I know the positive effects these ancient practices have on my life. But of these practices I have never found anything quite like tantra to quiet my mind and awaken my awareness.

Becoming a Tantra Instructor was an epiphany for me. I love the concept and practices of Tantra. It is a beautiful, simple and loving way of reconnecting and re-inspiring a relationship.

To teach a man to naturally, without nasal spray or a pill, enhance and master his physical prowess, while connecting with his heart, so a couple’s love is stronger and deeper than ever before…..and if I can help a woman find her inner Goddess... Wow, what a wonderful gift to give to the world!!

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